Personal relationships are the hardest thing we will ever do in life. We all need help and wisdom.
Remember the 80/20 rule? Over 80% of all narcisstic personality disorders are diagnosed by individuals who are 100% unqualified to do so. Even if the academic study is there, often times the experience has not been formed. This is important because it places a label on a person's actions and allows a wrong psychological behavioral pattern to describe a person. Want to know what should be happening?
One of the most important challenges we all face in life is our understanding and success of personal relationships. I often say that the success we hope to achieve with our personal relationships is the most challenging part of our lives. It does not matter if it is a simple friendship, romantic or work related relationship. They are all difficult and challenging.
Why is red the only color flag I ever hear about? What ever happen to yellow, orange or white? Do we just ignore them until we can clearly see the red? How much does fear of walking away create color blindness? Did I just ignore the signs? Was I afraid of being alone or am I hopefully romantic and think I can make it work? Have you ever thought about these questions?
Planetary Narcissism is based on a theory that actual comes from space, more specifically black holes. The rings represent personality traits, and the gravitational pull either expands or contracts their appearance.
The Cyan, magenta, yellow and black rings visually show the expansion and growth; all heald together by positive and negative charges. The key is what happens when some rings shrink to cingularity and the black ring keeps expanding inward with nothing to hold it back. That is where sociopathic personality disorder lives. Want to learn more?
If men are said to come from Mars and woman from Venus, then shouldn't narcissistic men and woman come from their planetary narcissistic originations? Which half below represents a warm empathetic individual and which one looks a little frightening and void of bright color?
Therapists and life coaches tend to use narcissism as a one size fits all is the best approach which also might apply to what might have created a disorder in the first place. Using a simple planetary model, my goal is to give a more clear understanding of narcissism and why it can be so devastating.
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